Monday, 3 June 2013

Who can be Child Abuser and Victim?




An CHILD Abuser is someone (of course I can’t list it as person) who takes advantage of his/her position to mistreat or exploit the child in wrong manner.

Who can be Child Abuser:


Ø  Family members
Ø  Family friends
Ø  Neighbors
Ø  Relatives
Ø  A person who is very dear to child
Ø  A person who is very favorites of child
Ø  A person who is magical with kid
Ø  A person who is dominating to kid
Ø  Parent
Ø  This list can contain anybody who is near to child.


"Among the over 262,000 alleged offenders investigated for instances of child abuse in 2012, some startling statistics include:
  • 25,756 were ages 13 to 17 years
  • 18,227 were under age 13 years
  • 85,699 were a parent or step-parent of the victim
  • 125,129 were related or known to the child victim in another way
  • 22,055 were an unrelated person the victim knew
  • 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys are sexually abused before the age of 18.
  • 1 in 5 children is solicited sexually while on the internet.
  • Nearly 70% of all reported sexual assaults (including assaults on adults) are on children ages 17 and under"
Look into statics shared on internet by NCA, in Most of cases abuser is known person to Kid.
We cannot control the mentally sick un-human crowd who are child abuser (i want to apologize to Animal since sometime theses abuser get compare with animals) but we can try control surroundings.

Still you want to be do something about the abuser also, please don’t stay quit. Don’t ignore and try confronting that character. It may embarrass you in front of others but it may save any child around you. As I said before “Negligence is the most common reason of child abuse in our decent society.

Please refer this myths about child abuse/abuser:
http://www.onewithcourage.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/myths-about-abuse1.pdf

Which Kid can be abused?

I am not going to talk about children facing specific environment which make them more vulnerable to these kinds of people because it will just make other children less vulnerable. I BELIEVE, any child can face this kind un-human behavior since they can’t always judge


So answer from my side will be : Any kid

It is just matter of accessibility of child to molester. So any kid who is accessible to them are equally vulnerable for child molestation because each kid is innocent and most of those molesters are magically friendly with children.